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A simple way to start conversations.
Starting a conversation can be harder than it looks.
Sometimes, you meet someone new and you just don't know what to say. Other times, you are catching up with someone you know well, but you still struggle to find a good starting point.
For both cases, small talk is a good choice. Small talk isn't meaningless. It's the bridge to deeper connections.
The FORM technique was created for small talk. It applies to networking events, sales calls, and casual meetings.
The FORM technique is built around four simple topics: Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Message.
Each topic helps guide the conversation naturally.
Ask about the person’s family.
This is often a comfortable starting point because family is important to many people.
You can ask questions like, "Do you have any siblings?" or "How is your family doing?" This shows you care and are interested in their personal life.
Start with light, optional personal context, only if it feels appropriate.
Instead of jumping into private questions, use softer openers like: "Are you originally from here?" or "Do you visit family often?"
If they keep answers short, pivot to another topic quickly.
Find out what they enjoy doing in their free time.
Hobbies and interests can create strong bonds. You can ask, "Doing anything fun this weekend?". Talking about fun activities usually brings more energy to the conversation.
Once you have built a good connection, it's time to share a meaningful message.
This could be about your services, your ideas, or even just setting up the next meeting. At this point, people are more likely to listen and engage with your message because people feel more comfortable after an easy, low-pressure exchange.